OK. I admit it. I love Christmas. It’s not a theological, religious or faith
thing. No, it’s more sociological, psychological,
and nostalgic, I believe. Nevertheless,
I love it. My friend and colleague Rabbi
Ben Kamin wrote that Jews are outsiders at this time of the year, outside looking in, or something to that effect.
How not true for me.
I never wanted a Christmas tree. I never asked to put lights up on the house (although
we always lived in apartments in Chicago).
I never wanted to go to midnight mass (although I did go several times
with high school buddies, all of whom were Christians). But I certainly remember riding around Chicago with my dad looking for the best
light displays. And, later on when he
lived in Deerfield Beach, Florida, driving over to the National Inquirer’s
headquarters to see their world renowned Christmas light display. When Juca and I were first married we lived on Addison on
the North side (just a few blocks from the cathedral…I’m referring to Wrigley
Field) and would love going downtown to the Loop at this time (Ba’yamim Ha Hem,
Ba’Zman Ha Zeh) to see all of the store displays and marvel at the shoppers on
State Street. Good times.
But I expect that that’s not it; not the real reason that I
love Christmas. It is the sentiment, the warmth of the holiday. It’s the hope and wish for peace on earth goodwill toward men. Christmas is Pesach. It’s family
time; family history; family stories; it’s over the river and through the woods
to grandmother’s house we go. That’s
Christmas. How great to think of kids
excited to wake up on Christmas morning to see what is waiting for them under
the tree.
Thank God Judah Maccabee and his gang saved the Jewish People
so that Jesus could be born 168 years later so that we could have this
wonderful holiday.
So the real confession here is that whenever I hear Bing
Crosby sing “I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas,” or “I’ll be Home for
Christmas,” or The Weavers sing, “We Wish You a Merry Christmas,” or especially
whenever I hear Judy Garland sing “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas,” the tears come. (I cry whenever I hear Judy Garland sing anything…even
“The Trolley Song.” But I digress)
Right, so who cries at Christmas? Me,
that’s who,. Right Ben, it’s not my
holiday, but it means a lot to me and in my own way I’m right in the middle of
it. I don’t feel like I’m on the outside
looking in.
The Weavers and Pete Seeger add a line after the goodwill
toward men sentiment. They sing, “Why
can’t we have Christmas the whole year around?”
With all that’s going on in Connecticut, Israel, Afghanistan, etc. etc.
we certainly could use it.
Have yourselves a merry little Christmas.
Ron